Remember when “Karen” became shorthand for a certain type of entitled, confrontational behavior? Millennials and Gen X made it the go-to name for someone demanding to speak to the manager. Now Gen Z has decided it’s time for their generation to have its own version, and they’ve landed on “Jessica.”
According to viral TikTok discussions, the name represents a specific archetype: the slightly older millennial woman who’s performatively nice but subtly condescending, obsessed with aesthetics over substance, and has very strong opinions about brunch spots and zodiac signs. Think wellness influencer energy meets passive-aggressive group chat administrator.
This isn’t just internet randomness. Research shows that names carry stereotypical associations and behaviors, creating shared mental representations within a society. We unconsciously attach characteristics to names, making them convenient shorthand for broader social patterns.
What Makes a Jessica a “Jessica”
The Jessica stereotype isn’t about being overtly rude like a Karen. It’s about a particular brand of millennial sincerity that Gen Z finds exhausting. She’s the person who says “let’s circle back” in casual conversations, uses air quotes frequently, and genuinely believes her morning routine of 47 steps is life-changing information everyone needs to hear.
She’s deeply invested in appearing cultured and sophisticated. She’ll correct your pronunciation of quinoa. She has thoughts about which farmer’s market is “actually authentic.” Her Instagram bio definitely includes multiple emoji and possibly the word “wanderlust.”
The Jessica archetype also tends to treat younger people as projects or little sisters rather than equals. She’s the coworker who offers unsolicited advice about your career, your dating life, and why you really should be using a silk pillowcase. The advice comes from a place of apparent kindness, but there’s an underlying assumption that her way of doing things is objectively correct.
Why Millennials Are Taking This Personally
Here’s where it gets uncomfortable for anyone born between 1981 and 1996: Jessica represents peak millennial culture, the things that felt authentic and meaningful when millennials were coming of age but now read as try-hard to younger generations.
The obsession with self-care as a marketable lifestyle. The performative quirky girl aesthetic. The need to turn every experience into content. The way millennials packaged their personalities around carefully curated consumption choices — the right coffee, the right yoga studio, the right way to demonstrate that you’re not like other people.
Gen Z is doing what every generation does: looking at the generation before them and identifying exactly what feels dated. For millennials who built their identities around being the “cool” generation that rejected their parents’ values, this stings a bit.
The Name Game Through Generations
Every few years, a name becomes cultural shorthand for broader social patterns. “Karen” stuck because it captured something specific: a particular kind of privileged entitlement that manifested in public freakouts and demands for special treatment. Before Karen, there was “Becky,” which had its own connotations.
Jessica works for Gen Z because it’s a name that peaked in popularity during the 1980s and early 1990s — peak millennial territory. Jessica was consistently the first or second most popular female name in the United States from 1981 to 1998, which means there are a lot of Jessicas in their 30s and early 40s right now, firmly in the age range where Gen Z sees millennial culture most concentrated.
The timing matters too. Gen Z is entering adulthood and the workforce during a moment when millennials have moved into management positions, are having kids, and have enough disposable income to be the target demographic for lifestyle brands. That means millennial culture is everywhere, which makes it ripe for parody.
The Real Jessicas Aren’t Happy
As you might expect, actual people named Jessica are less than thrilled about their name becoming a punchline. Social media is full of Jessicas defending themselves, pointing out that they’re just living their lives and don’t fit any stereotype.
They have a point. Like all generational stereotypes, the Jessica archetype is reductive and unfair. Generational labels lead to oversimplification, and not all millennials or people named Jessica are the same. Plenty of people named Jessica don’t care about wellness trends or brunch discourse. And plenty of people who aren’t named Jessica absolutely embody the stereotype. The name is just a convenient placeholder for a set of behaviors that Gen Z finds annoying.
But that’s how these things work. Karen, Becky, Jessica — none of these names actually describe most people who have them. They’re cultural shorthand that takes on a life of its own, regardless of what actual Karens, Beckys, or Jessicas think about it.
What This Says About Gen Z
The interesting part isn’t really about the name itself. It’s about what Gen Z is pushing back against. They’re skeptical of the authenticity-as-brand approach that defined millennial culture. Academic research shows that older generations often use stereotypes to differentiate themselves and maintain their sense of identity and values. They’re less interested in the carefully curated aesthetic version of life and more comfortable with messiness and contradiction.
Where millennials tried to professionalize and monetize everything — every hobby becomes a side hustle, every interest becomes part of your personal brand — Gen Z values direct communication and authenticity over performance. The rejection of “Jessica” behavior is really a rejection of that constant performance.
Of course, Gen Z will eventually become the older generation that younger people mock. Their cultural touchstones will become dated. Their slang will sound cringe to their kids. The wheel keeps turning.
For now, though, if you’re a millennial who feels personally attacked by the Jessica discourse, maybe take a breath. You’re allowed to like your oat milk latte and your houseplants. Just maybe dial back the certainty that everyone else needs to hear about your morning routine.